My younger son is working in South Korea for a week, and my daughter is working in Switzerland this week, London next week. My other son is hard at work on the East Coast, so we are indeed a spread out family. This got me to thinking about how far-flung the BVGO's are. Our ten precious children all 'flew the coop' long ago, and their careers (and loves) have taken them near and far. Just how near and just how far? Here are their current locations, in descending order by age:
Dallas, TX
Port Orchard, WA
Basel, Switzerland
Turkey
Sacramento, CA
Yakima, WA
Durham, NC
Port Orchard, WA
Tulsa, OK
Suwon, South Korea
Fly high, BVGO's, but never forget your roots: The playground at Bethel Valley Lane and the Piggy Park!
So far, and yet so near...........always in our hearts....................always in our prayers.
Wednesday, January 20, 2016
Tuesday, January 19, 2016
Looking Back at Another BVGO Reunion - December 27, 2016
It wasn't planned, and sometimes those are the best reunions. Two days after Christmas--and three days after another reunion of Bethel Valley Girl Offspring--we ran in to j's family at one of our family's favorite Port Orchard haunts back in the '90's, Spiro's. My husband and I had just finished dinner with our son and his girlfriend, who were visiting from North Carolina, when I heard a familiar voice and looked up to see j, her husband, and lo and behold, their two daughters who were visiting from Eastern Washington and Texas. What a joy to see j's daughters together, first time for them in five years, and I couldn't pass up the opportunity to get a blog-worthy picture of them with my son who didn't even remember them from his childhood. And there they are, together---yay! Just days before, j's daughters had been with Cool's oldest son. Sorry to say, no picture to prove it happened, but like distant cousins, we BVG's sincerely hope our grown children will somehow stay connected and will be proud of their BVG heritage. That makes these reunions worth much to us.
The Passing of Glenn Frey
Glenn Frey died yesterday. He was 67. He was my age. He was j’s age. Wait-----who
was Glenn Frey? Oh, he was the co-founder of the Eagles. And by the Eagles I
mean the band, not the fraternal organization that a whole lot of old people
belong to. I know the Eagles, and I know their music, but they were a ‘70’s
band, not a ‘60’s band. Therein lies a slight difference between Elletu and me,
a ‘generational gap,’ if you will. She’s playing Eagles music all day and
feeling sad and nostalgic. Just the other day I was telling j’s husband that even
songs from the ‘60’s about drugs, such as “White Rabbit,” make me feel
nostalgic today, and I didn’t try any drugs (or drink, for that matter) when my
generation was doing that. It’s easy to see now that music defines a decade.
Those of us who graduated from high school in the ‘60’s seem to identify with
music from that decade, and so it is for people who graduated from high school
in the ‘70’s, such as Elletu.
That being said, I do like the Eagles’ music, and when a music maker
passes away, I hate to think about their genius being gone. David Bowie, and
Natalie Cole just before him, won’t be putting out any more new songs. It is
sad. Keith Green died in a plane crash 34 years ago, and I still miss him and
his music, even though I have several of his albums. It makes me stop and
think, do we take songwriters for granted? And who will leave us next?
I had to do some research about Glenn Frey, since I honestly did not recognize his name when I heard of his death (sorry, Elletu). So research is just what I do--I can't help myself. I was so surprised to see that Linda Ronstadt had something to do with the 'incubation' of the Eagles. Glenn Frey and Don Henley knew each other before they joined Linda Ronstadt's band in 1971. But it was their time together in that band that led to their formation of the Eagles later that year. I am definitely a Linda Ronstadt fan. This is something about her I did not know. I wonder if Elletu knew it before. She does now.
This afternoon Elletu sent me this article from CNN, and it backs up
just what she and I were texting back and forth to each other earlier in the day, our surprising feelings when singers and songwriters who spoke for our generation pass away. I deleted
some paragraphs of the article because of space, but the main thrust of the article remains
intact. I am posting it here to show solidarity with Elletu, the youngest of our Sisterhood, a 'youth of the '70's' indeed, just to let her know that I, a child of the '60's, feel her pain today. Today we are all Glenn Frey fans!
(CNN)The passing of Glenn Frey both recalls and closes the book on
one of rock's most celebrated rock 'n' roll songwriting teams, but for many of
us it also signals something more personal: the passing of a time when the
Eagles' "Hotel California" was the anthem for the youth of America in
the '70s -- the way Beatles music was for the children of the '60s.
For
people who came up in that time, the death of Frey -- and earlier this month
the death of David Bowie -- comes as a reality check, a resounding reminder
that the days of "Take it Easy" and the promise of "One of these
Nights" are long behind us.
'Hotel California' speaks to generation
But it was "Hotel
California," released in 1976, that made them a worldwide sensation. The
album's opening track of the same name, co-written by Frey, was the clarion
call for the Eagles the way "Sgt. Pepper's Lonely Hearts Club Band"
had been for the Beatles: It described both the band's self-destruction by
excess, its awareness of that self-destruction and its inability to stop it.
("You can check out any time, but you can never leave. ...")
It was "Hotel
California" that internalized all the angst of the times, trading in the
'60s -- Vietnam, student unrest, turning on and dropping out -- for a weary age
of tuning in and getting laid, its lead character moaning about not having the
spirit of 1969 in the air anymore.
This introspection was
what separated and elevated the Eagles from all the other American bands, and
it was Frey who was key to it. The only thing he cared about was the hot-rush
politics of romance, while Henley wanted the band to be more relevant, to put a
cool contemporary voice to the romance of politics.
Because despite the belief
that rock 'n' roll will keep us forever young, the truth is it doesn't age well
on us. That's the beauty and power of rock 'n' roll: It celebrates transient
youth in the present tense. It's what makes it both shimmery and precious. And
it's what makes the death of Glenn Frey so mournful.
The passing of Glenn Frey reminds us all too well of the kids we
were in the '70s -- our blue jeans and black boots, our long hair and 'stashes
and crushes on impossibly beautiful, unattainable girls, our nights spent
cross-legged in front of turntables listening with great intent to the latest
album of one of our heroes. We believed that somehow we could change the world
by the force of our belief in the power of rock 'n' roll, but instead the world
changed us.
When
we mourn for Frey, are we mourning our lost selves and a time when we all
thought we could live hard and stay free and surf and bike and run and jump and
love and never lose because we were forever young?
God
bless, Glenn Frey. You were part of our dreams. Now, truly, you belong to the
night.
******And I should add here, perhaps to make us feel better, that today is Dolly Parton's 70th birthday! May we all look that good when we turn 70!
Tuesday, January 5, 2016
Happy New Year!
We made it through Christmas and then gathered at Trankwility Woods with a few FOBVG's for a fun and fabulous New Year's Eve party. Saying goodbye to 2015 with a feast and a couple of games, we welcomed 2016 with some bubbly, expertly (and Cooly) mixed together with Harbinger Blackberry or Raspberry Bliss. We watched the ball come down in Times' Square on TV, and given the ages of the party-goers, let's just say that Dick Clark was sorely missed. It's never been quite the same without him. While some people made a rather quick exit once the clock struck midnight, one BVG/BVB combo stayed until 3 a.m., bless them! I was perky until 4 a.m. and up at 9 a.m. to prepare for more friends to arrive for the day. The year is off to a good start--even got more snow on Day 3--and I can't wait to see what's in store for the BVG's in the next 12 months. Check this blog out for all the action!
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