Tuesday, September 30, 2014
Clairvoyant Photo
It was Christmas 2008, and all three of our children and their mates/significant others came to stay with us at our townhouse in Chesapeake, VA. The day after Christmas we drove north in two cars for seven hours to spend a few days in New York City. On one day my husband and I walked the entire length of Central Park. Another day we set out by subway to take the ferry to Staten Island. Then we came back into Manhattan and visited the neighborhoods I wanted to see. My top choice was Tribeca. When we happened upon the Tribeca Wine Merchants I asked him to snap a photo. At the time I was hardly a wine drinker at all. I had to move back to the Bethel Valley Girls to do that! It would be two and a half years until I had a wine bar in my house. That's when I adopted more of a wine lifestyle. So why this photo? I just loved the look of it. Now I want a copy of it hanging in my wine bar. I didn't visit this store, but I was drawn to it. Clairvoyantly drawn to it.
Cool's Cool Connections
I told the BVG's I want to tell their stories too, not just mine. What notable people have they come in contact with? Cool's list is long---and cool! This from her:
"My husband (then boyfriend), my sister and I met Billy Graham at a Lutheran Youth Congress in San Francisco in 1972. He was friendly and kind, and took time to talk with the three of us. He was our featured speaker at the congress, held at the San Francisco Hilton. I have met Mark Lowery, BeeBee and CeeCee Winans, Steven Curtis Chapman (he was so sick he could hardly sing, but he paused to talk with me a few minutes), the guys from Take 6, the guys from Glad, the band members from Harvest, Wayne Watson, and Twila Paris. I went to a guitar clinic taught by Phil Keaggy … and my husband and I were friends with Christian singer and flat-picker Dennis Agajanian for several years during our dating/engagement/newlywed lives. It was Dennis’ suggestion that we date, and, indeed, that we consider marriage. He was supposed to have sung at our wedding, but called the week before to cancel – his manager had messed up his performance schedule and booked him several states away. My husband and I and I met Bill Muncey as children and we both sat in his Miss Thriftway hydroplane. We’ve also both met JP Patches. Ann and Nancy Wilson (Heart) sang at Bothell High School when I was a senior but I was so star struck and shy that I couldn’t talk to them. Jester Hairston (composer, arranger, singer) came to BHS when I was a junior and called four of us out of the audience to sing for him a cappella – that was so frightening! He made me talk in front of my entire high school. I have met Debbie Macomber, Norm Dicks and Derek Kilmer. Also I met Congresswoman Ellen Craswell in the 1990s – she was a speaker at a Harper EFC Women’s Retreat, and I was on the retreat committee. She was a wonderful Christian woman and a dynamic speaker – she also served on jury duty once years ago when I was filling in. Also, Michael Card, Larnelle Harris, and Philip and Pam Boulding – of Magical Strings fame. That’s all the star connections I can think of."
Her memory of meeting Billy Graham reminded me of my own three times of not meeting but hearing Billy Graham in person, all three notable experiences:
1967 Minneapolis, Minnesota, when I was involved with Lutheran Youth Encounter
1968 Bern, Switzerland, Baptist Youth World Convention (he was keynote speaker)
1976 Seattle, Washington, very first event in the Kingdome, Billy Graham Crusade
(my husband were married just two weeks, and we attended with my parents)
I also met Bill Muncey (always rooted for Miss Thriftway, cried when he died). I wonder if Cool met JP Patches when he and Gertrude came to Port Orchard when our children were little. They were off to the side of Bethel Avenue. Here are a few pictures I found from that day (me with my daughter):
Was Cool there that day too?
My son played back-up (saxophone) to Wayne Watson when he was at our church in Hawaii, and Debbie Macomber is my friend and I was her piano teacher. I haven't met Glad, but I met First Call when they were at our church.
Cool and I are not surprised that we have a few connections with our connections. We're just like that.
"My husband (then boyfriend), my sister and I met Billy Graham at a Lutheran Youth Congress in San Francisco in 1972. He was friendly and kind, and took time to talk with the three of us. He was our featured speaker at the congress, held at the San Francisco Hilton. I have met Mark Lowery, BeeBee and CeeCee Winans, Steven Curtis Chapman (he was so sick he could hardly sing, but he paused to talk with me a few minutes), the guys from Take 6, the guys from Glad, the band members from Harvest, Wayne Watson, and Twila Paris. I went to a guitar clinic taught by Phil Keaggy … and my husband and I were friends with Christian singer and flat-picker Dennis Agajanian for several years during our dating/engagement/newlywed lives. It was Dennis’ suggestion that we date, and, indeed, that we consider marriage. He was supposed to have sung at our wedding, but called the week before to cancel – his manager had messed up his performance schedule and booked him several states away. My husband and I and I met Bill Muncey as children and we both sat in his Miss Thriftway hydroplane. We’ve also both met JP Patches. Ann and Nancy Wilson (Heart) sang at Bothell High School when I was a senior but I was so star struck and shy that I couldn’t talk to them. Jester Hairston (composer, arranger, singer) came to BHS when I was a junior and called four of us out of the audience to sing for him a cappella – that was so frightening! He made me talk in front of my entire high school. I have met Debbie Macomber, Norm Dicks and Derek Kilmer. Also I met Congresswoman Ellen Craswell in the 1990s – she was a speaker at a Harper EFC Women’s Retreat, and I was on the retreat committee. She was a wonderful Christian woman and a dynamic speaker – she also served on jury duty once years ago when I was filling in. Also, Michael Card, Larnelle Harris, and Philip and Pam Boulding – of Magical Strings fame. That’s all the star connections I can think of."
Her memory of meeting Billy Graham reminded me of my own three times of not meeting but hearing Billy Graham in person, all three notable experiences:
1967 Minneapolis, Minnesota, when I was involved with Lutheran Youth Encounter
1968 Bern, Switzerland, Baptist Youth World Convention (he was keynote speaker)
1976 Seattle, Washington, very first event in the Kingdome, Billy Graham Crusade
(my husband were married just two weeks, and we attended with my parents)
I also met Bill Muncey (always rooted for Miss Thriftway, cried when he died). I wonder if Cool met JP Patches when he and Gertrude came to Port Orchard when our children were little. They were off to the side of Bethel Avenue. Here are a few pictures I found from that day (me with my daughter):
My son played back-up (saxophone) to Wayne Watson when he was at our church in Hawaii, and Debbie Macomber is my friend and I was her piano teacher. I haven't met Glad, but I met First Call when they were at our church.
Cool and I are not surprised that we have a few connections with our connections. We're just like that.
Monday, September 29, 2014
Cool's Cool Confections
Cool made these and brought them to the Route 66 Party. They were a huge hit. She used apple slices, peanut butter and mini marshmallows. One of the party attendees is planning to send these photos on to her dentist. If she had picture of the mammo thingies Cool made she would send it on to her gynecologist.
Today's Stars: More BVG Connections - Part 2
**Please read Part 1 before reading Part 2.
This is how close I was to Meredith Viera!
I could see her wrinkles-------yes, wrinkles!!!
But she is a very pretty woman with gorgeous hair.
Matt didn't work the crowd like Meredith did, so this is as close as I got to him.
I'm glad we were able to get coffee at the famed Dean & Deluca's at Rockefeller Plaza while it was still in existence. For years it was the back-drop for the Today Show. I'm not sure why it eventually closed, given its popularity, but the flagship store in the SoHo District and others around, plus fictional Dean & Deluca stores have been in many movies and TV shows.
And speaking of going to places that have been used in popular culture, in the summer of 1994 my husband and I took our daughter to Mystic Pizza in Mystic, Connecticut, popularized in the Julia Roberts movie, "Mystic Pizza." The small pizza place was exactly as it appeared in the movie. By the time we returned with our two sons in the summer of 1997, Mystic Pizza had been renovated to cater to tourists, with pictures from the movie all over the walls, much like the way Bubba Gump restaurants have pictures from the Tom Hanks movie Forrest Gump on the walls.
And to go one step farther, the 1982 Richard Gere/Debra Winger movie "An Officer and a Gentleman" was filmed in Port Townsend, where my mother was born, where my parents were high school sweethearts and where they married and had five of their six children. In the movie, The Tides Motel was the scene of Richard Gere's character's friend's suicide. That motel is where my brother and my sister-in-law spent their wedding night after their wedding on April 17, 1959. And even more notable, at one point in the movie Richard Gere drives by my Aunt Winnie and Uncle Claude's house.
I don't know if this counts, but perhaps this event set the stage for all my 'close brushes' with stars:
When I was in early elementary school I faithfully watched Stan Boreson's children's TV show, "Stan Boreson's Clubhouse" after school. He had his trusty sidekick, his dog No-Mo (for 'no motion' because he just sat there), and Stan invited his viewers to draw pictures of No-Mo with a sweater on. I drew a big picture and mailed it in to the show. One day he showed my drawing on his show!!! He said my name, and I was so excited---but no one else was home to see it! I'm not sure my family ever believed me. : (
The next time I was on TV I was in high school and our select girls ensemble was chosen to sing as part of a Christmas program on KOMO-TV. During the filming, the heavy round metal rim of a huge light above us fell off and hit me on my shoulder! The weird thing is I saw it fall while watching the monitor. (They edited it out of the recording.)
And the only other time I appeared on TV was on the evening news during the Gulf War. A TV crew came out to our church in Port Orchard to do a feature story on one of the military families in the church. This family caught the attention of the media because in this case, the wife & mother of toddlers was in the military and was sent to war, while the husband stayed home and cared for the children. The crew was following the husband through his normal routine, and that included coming to church. The funny thing is, it was just our second week at that church, and yet the way they filmed me in the foyer talking to the pastor's wife (she was already my friend), you would have thought I was a founding member of the congregation. This included a full head shot of me. Glad to say I didn't look half bad that day. I have no idea why they chose me. Maybe they knew I was a Bethel Valley Girl?
Matt Lauer and Meredith Viera live in the studio, NBC's Today Show
Matt and Meredith outside.This is how close I was to Meredith Viera!
I could see her wrinkles-------yes, wrinkles!!!
But she is a very pretty woman with gorgeous hair.
Matt didn't work the crowd like Meredith did, so this is as close as I got to him.
I'm glad we were able to get coffee at the famed Dean & Deluca's at Rockefeller Plaza while it was still in existence. For years it was the back-drop for the Today Show. I'm not sure why it eventually closed, given its popularity, but the flagship store in the SoHo District and others around, plus fictional Dean & Deluca stores have been in many movies and TV shows.
And speaking of going to places that have been used in popular culture, in the summer of 1994 my husband and I took our daughter to Mystic Pizza in Mystic, Connecticut, popularized in the Julia Roberts movie, "Mystic Pizza." The small pizza place was exactly as it appeared in the movie. By the time we returned with our two sons in the summer of 1997, Mystic Pizza had been renovated to cater to tourists, with pictures from the movie all over the walls, much like the way Bubba Gump restaurants have pictures from the Tom Hanks movie Forrest Gump on the walls.
And to go one step farther, the 1982 Richard Gere/Debra Winger movie "An Officer and a Gentleman" was filmed in Port Townsend, where my mother was born, where my parents were high school sweethearts and where they married and had five of their six children. In the movie, The Tides Motel was the scene of Richard Gere's character's friend's suicide. That motel is where my brother and my sister-in-law spent their wedding night after their wedding on April 17, 1959. And even more notable, at one point in the movie Richard Gere drives by my Aunt Winnie and Uncle Claude's house.
I don't know if this counts, but perhaps this event set the stage for all my 'close brushes' with stars:
When I was in early elementary school I faithfully watched Stan Boreson's children's TV show, "Stan Boreson's Clubhouse" after school. He had his trusty sidekick, his dog No-Mo (for 'no motion' because he just sat there), and Stan invited his viewers to draw pictures of No-Mo with a sweater on. I drew a big picture and mailed it in to the show. One day he showed my drawing on his show!!! He said my name, and I was so excited---but no one else was home to see it! I'm not sure my family ever believed me. : (
The next time I was on TV I was in high school and our select girls ensemble was chosen to sing as part of a Christmas program on KOMO-TV. During the filming, the heavy round metal rim of a huge light above us fell off and hit me on my shoulder! The weird thing is I saw it fall while watching the monitor. (They edited it out of the recording.)
And the only other time I appeared on TV was on the evening news during the Gulf War. A TV crew came out to our church in Port Orchard to do a feature story on one of the military families in the church. This family caught the attention of the media because in this case, the wife & mother of toddlers was in the military and was sent to war, while the husband stayed home and cared for the children. The crew was following the husband through his normal routine, and that included coming to church. The funny thing is, it was just our second week at that church, and yet the way they filmed me in the foyer talking to the pastor's wife (she was already my friend), you would have thought I was a founding member of the congregation. This included a full head shot of me. Glad to say I didn't look half bad that day. I have no idea why they chose me. Maybe they knew I was a Bethel Valley Girl?
Today's Stars: More BVG Connections - Part 1
It's true---I have been up close and personal with past stars of NBC's Today Show. During our first year living in Virginia, my husband and I met our daughter and her then-boyfriend in New York City for a few days just prior to Christmas. It was her treat, and she planned some things she knew I would love doing, such as being part of the outdoor audience for the Today Show. We arrived on the Plaza about 6 A.M., and boy, was it ever freezing! I thoroughly enjoyed myself during those few hours, so much so that we repeated this experience during subsequent visits to NYC. Admittedly, it was much easier to do that during summer visits, but nothing can compare with the thrill of that first trip, when we were close enough to reach out and touch Meredith Viera, David Gregory (Matt Lauer was on vacation at that time) and Al Roker. We were able to see Ann Curry inside the studio through the window. Most memorable of that trip was Meredith Viera pointing to the amazing hat my daughter had knitted to give to her brother for Christmas. She let my daughter know she really liked it. On a return trip Matt Lauer was back, and I have to admit, I was a little bit star-struck.
Al Roker works the crowd before doing the weather.
Meredith Viera and David Gregory had to be cold too.
Ann Curry flips her hair prior to doing her news report.
My daughter made this hat for her brother for Christmas but wore it on national TV first.
It was a most momentous, magical Christmas adventure!
Friday, September 26, 2014
Trending in the Bathroom
This was j's idea, decorative rocks in my powder room sink, to hide imperfections around the drain opening. So spa-like! I love it! This has drawn a positive response from all of my female friends. Our male friends, however, make comments like this: "Hey there were some rocks in your sink, so I washed them down the drain for you." They don't get it. Thanks, j, for the suggestion. I already had the rocks, so it was a cheap fix for a decorating flaw. I never would have thought of it on my own. (If I were on Twitter, and if I understood the whole hashtag thing, this would be under #FriendsHelpingFriendsInTheBathroom.)
Thursday, September 25, 2014
More BVG Star Connections.......Sort of
Actor Josh Lucas
I was watching "Evening Magazine" on KING-TV last night, and they were interviewing the stars of the new TV show, "The Mysteries of Laura." I have been a fan of Debra Messing before, but I didn't recall the name of Josh Lucas. It turns out he starred opposite Reese Witherspoon in "Sweet Home Alabama." I loved that movie. The reason they were being interviewed from Seattle for "Evening Magazine" was because it turns out Josh Lucas is from Gig Harbor!
OMG (that would be 'gosh'), j lives in Gig Harbor! I bet she never knew about this 'connection.' I knew full well when we moved to Chesapeake, VA that it was the hometown of "American Idol" alum, Chris Richardson, not that I ever saw him. And I never saw Felicia Barton, who competed while I lived there. She is now a prolific songwriter in L.A. But Josh Lucas is a much bigger deal, and I thought j should know that he grew up in her town.
Oh, I just thought of something else. A boy from my junior-senior high school, Michael Crich, was in the Sidney Poitier/Anne Bancroft/Telly Savalas movie, "The Slender Thread," about the Seattle Crisis Clinic. I will never forget his one line: "Lady, hey lady!" He was just a nameless guy on the beach at Seattle's Golden Gardens, and Anne Bancroft's character was walking straight out into Puget Sound, trying to commit suicide. As far as I know, Michael didn't get any movie deals beyond that.
And I don't think Josh Lucas will be j's 'Jimi Hendrix Story.'
Wednesday, September 24, 2014
More BVG Star Connections
Actor Jim Caviezel
After finishing this morning's blog post about Elletu's and j's daughters' connection to actress Zoe McLellan, the female lead in the new "NCIS New Orleans" TV show, I remembered that Elletu's former boss--at South Kitsap High School, I might add--is actor Jim Caviezel's cousin. I mention the school because that is where the two BVGO's knew Zoe McLellan.
Then I remembered I graduated from Rainier Beach High School in 1966 with Vivian Greene, the author of many books, comic strip creator, entrepreneur with her own card line, motivational speaker (she travels the world as a speaker), and known for many of her quotes, such as, "Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass...It's about learning to dance in the rain." I see that quote on cards, posters, mugs, etc., all the time. In high school we were editors on the newspaper staff together and sang in the girls select ensemble together. We lost touch with each other for a few decades, and then one day I read about her in the Honolulu newspaper. She moved there when we were living there! So I e-mailed her, she called, and as it turned out, we ended up at the same church in Honolulu!
Now I'm asking you other BVG's to send me your own stories of your connections with notable people. (While you're at it, I'm waiting for your stories about your own falls too.)
The BVGO's 'Zoe McLellan Story'
Actress Zoe McLellan
Elletu's daughter was in Acting Ensemble with her in high school, and j's daughter graduated with her. Her name is Zoe McLellan, and last night was her premier as the female lead in CBS' "NCIS New Orleans," a spin-off of the veteran top TV show, "NCIS." Being a fan of "NCIS," I watched the two-part pilot for the spin-off last spring and was glad to hear it was picked up for the fall schedule. Little did I realize at that time that Special Agent Brody was portrayed by a Port Orchard girl (woman), Zoe McLellan, who it turns out graduated from South Kitsap High School in 1992 (where she was the homecoming queen) three years before my daughter did. When the article about this local girl who made it big in Hollywood showed up in our local newspaper, I had a feeling two BVGO's would have known her. I remembered j's daughter being in musicals at the high school and Elletu's daughter being in Acting Ensemble. Sure enough they did know her, and they follow her on Facebook. This will be their 'Jimi Hendrix Story' in their lives.
It's always exciting to think of celebrities being from your area. Yes, Jimi Hendrix' funeral was at my Seattle church and I taught Sunday school to his little (step)sister, Janie Hendrix. Yes, I know best-selling author Debbie Macomber, went to church with her and taught piano to her. National radio personality Delilah also lives in and broadcasts from Port Orchard (right by Debbie's house). Since I tell these stories over and over and over again, I'm starting to think I might be kind of a 'star-struck' sort of person.
I have a weird little 'knack' for being loosely 'associated' with--perhaps just by proximity--well-known people. I don't know, maybe that's true for everyone. Of course I wish I could have made it big myself, but it's fun to take a look at how a truly ordinary person can brush past the truly notable people in a lifetime. It's true, most scenarios I cite are what you would call a real reach, and how many times have I heard that from my three children regarding my 'Jimi Hendrix Story'? As I mentioned before, they would groan whenever I mentioned it, that was until they found out that the pastor, my pastor, who officiated at Jimi Hendrix' funeral also dedicated them when they were babies. That changed everything. Then it became THEIR story.
But there were others, and allow me to take this little trip down Memory Lane:
**Royal Brougham Way near the stadiums in Seattle was named for a nationally-known Seattle sports reporter who went to our church. Royal Brougham, who was with the Seattle Post-Intelligencer for 68 years, was one of the longest tenured newspaper employees in the U.S. in history. He was friends with athletes such as Jack Dempsey and Babe Ruth and movie stars such as Bing Crosby. When I was two years old and crying about going to Sunday school, he gave me two pennies to put in the Sunday school offering, and I am told that made me quit crying. My family knew him until his death in 1978.
**I met Nanette Fabray at the Seattle airport when we were both waiting to take flights. I recognized her as Mary's mother on the "Mary Tyler Moore Show," my favorite.
**Kenny G went to the same junior high school (Sharples) and high school (Franklin) as my four siblings did. A Franklin classmate of his is in his band today. Not only did my daughter meet Kenny G in college, but he actually played one of her compositions (she graduated with a degree in composition) and he taught a seminar she attended.
**Wynton Marsalis also came to my daughter's university. When she met him she said she knew he was from Seattle and that she was from Port Orchard. He said, "Port Orchard? I spent a night in jail in Port Orchard!"
**Branford Marsalis taught my son while he was working on his master's degree at North Carolina Central University, and they appeared together in concert. We have a picture of the two of them out front playing together. Now they are professors together at NCCU and their names appeared together in Downbeat Magazine this month and their pictures will be in Jazz Times in a few months.
**David Foster also came to my daughter's university, and she had the incredible experience of being asked to transcribe a song for him before his Saturday night concert there. She was alone with him for several hours, he would play, she would transcribe. Then he invited her to stick around for his concert, getting her in for free as part of his crew. Good thing she said yes, because before the concert they realized his synthesizer would not work. None of his guys could get it working. My daughter asked if she could give it a try. They looked at her skeptically, her being a girl, with long blond hair no less. But she fooled them all---she fixed it! David Foster, by the way, gave her his card and told her to give him a call if she had a composition she wanted him to listen to. She should have done it, but she never did.
**I met author Corrie ten Boom and Christian singers Evie Tornquist and Don Moen, talked to them all personally. I took a class at Seattle Pacific taught by Ralph Carmichael, the grandfather of contemporary Christian music and met him too. Ten years ago I wrote a letter to him and he sent back the nicest letter and also a bunch of his CD's. I met numerous other Christian singers and musicians over the many years of attending Church Music Northwest.
**When my daughter was working in the music technology field in California, she was sent out to a home to repair a top-of-the-line synthesizer owned by Andrew Sievright. Most people wouldn't know who he was, but my daughter did because of me and she called me right away after not only repairing his whole system but also playing his grand piano. Andrew Sievright was the second husband of Melody Green, the widow of Christian songwriter and singer Keith Green. She told him, "My mom raised us on Keith Green's music!"
**My son who is a jazz saxophonist/clarinetist/flutist, has backed up so many famous singers and groups, it's hard to keep track. The list includes Chaka Khan, the Temptations, Frankie Avalon, Brian Horton, Joey Calderazzo and Branford Marsallis. At our church in Hawaii he also backed up singers such as Matthew Ward, Wayne Watson, Bryan Duncan and the group Point of Grace. When he played with Matthew Ward he brought him out to meet me after telling him, "Man, my mom raised me on your music!" When he played with Frankie Avalon for a New Year's Eve gig, he hung out with him during breaks and told him, "My mom rented "Back to the Beach" so many times, my brother and sister and I had all the lines memorized before she eventually bought the movie." Then he and Frankie sat their trading off lines from the movie. ("Train up your children in the way that they should go.")
**Most of the stars of the TV show "Lost," which was filmed on Oahu while we were living there, lived in Lanikai, which was part of Kailua where we lived. I was behind Jorge Garcia (Hurley) at Safeway, and my husband and I, sadly, watched Evangeline Lily's (Kate) house burn down one morning. She lived about five minutes from us, but we were at Starbucks doing our Bible study that morning, and it was even closer to her house.
**Oprah Winfrey bought a house/compound right on Kailua Beach, which was five minutes from our home. The Obamas spend every Christmas at Lanikai in Kailua.
**Greg Evans, cartoonist for the Luann comic strip, had his Luann always in love with a character who had my son's name, going back to when my son was in elementary school. When we lived in Hawaii and my son was in the university there, I wrote to Greg Evans, and he wrote right back. It turned out he and his wife came to Kailua every year for a vacation with friends in Lanikai. When he spoke at the Kailua Library during one of those vacations my husband and I went to meet him and his wife, who were very well aware of us and our story, that we moved to Kailua because of my husband's job. Sometime after that we were shocked to see Luann's love interest move to Kailua--our Kailua!--because of his father's job transfer! This was even written up in the Honolulu newspaper. I joked with Greg Evans that we deserved something like royalties since we handed him our son's life scenario for his story line. We have kept in touch from time to time.
**I met radio personality Sean Hannity at our church in Hawaii. He walked right up to me, shook my hand, and we talked. I threatened never to wash my right hand again.
But now, back to Zoe McLellan. Two BVGO's will always remember knowing her. Her life probably sounds big and exciting to them, and I thought that when I was reading about her. But all too often fame comes with big price in your personal life. That is true in Zoe's life. She had her first role in a movie in 1994. She appeared in "Mr. Holland's Opus" in 1995, as Girl 4. From then on, year after year, she appeared in not only movies but also TV shows. In 2008 she made what I think was a poor decision: She posed nude in Allure Magazine. In 2012 she married fellow actor J.P. Gillian, had a child with him 18 months ago, and now they have been going through a bitter child custody situation that is playing out in public. There are numerous big articles with headlines blaring phrases about her 'loser husband' and that he was only going after custody so he could get money from her TV success.
Personally, I think our quiet lives as BVGs--and for our children, as BVGOs--is far more appealing. We'll never show up in the tabloids. Nobody really cares what we say or do. It's okay that our blog doesn't go viral (or, as I say, bacterial). Obviously, we treasure our anonymity, hence the cucumber slices over our eyes (or some other reasonable facsimile). Hence Firstelle, Elletu, Cool and j. Nobody snaps our picture as we walk out of Fred Meyer.
But then a photographer did catch j outside of Hobby Lobby, and Home Goods, and Goodwill, and even while eating out on the deck at the Tides Tavern.............
Elletu's daughter was in Acting Ensemble with her in high school, and j's daughter graduated with her. Her name is Zoe McLellan, and last night was her premier as the female lead in CBS' "NCIS New Orleans," a spin-off of the veteran top TV show, "NCIS." Being a fan of "NCIS," I watched the two-part pilot for the spin-off last spring and was glad to hear it was picked up for the fall schedule. Little did I realize at that time that Special Agent Brody was portrayed by a Port Orchard girl (woman), Zoe McLellan, who it turns out graduated from South Kitsap High School in 1992 (where she was the homecoming queen) three years before my daughter did. When the article about this local girl who made it big in Hollywood showed up in our local newspaper, I had a feeling two BVGO's would have known her. I remembered j's daughter being in musicals at the high school and Elletu's daughter being in Acting Ensemble. Sure enough they did know her, and they follow her on Facebook. This will be their 'Jimi Hendrix Story' in their lives.
It's always exciting to think of celebrities being from your area. Yes, Jimi Hendrix' funeral was at my Seattle church and I taught Sunday school to his little (step)sister, Janie Hendrix. Yes, I know best-selling author Debbie Macomber, went to church with her and taught piano to her. National radio personality Delilah also lives in and broadcasts from Port Orchard (right by Debbie's house). Since I tell these stories over and over and over again, I'm starting to think I might be kind of a 'star-struck' sort of person.
I have a weird little 'knack' for being loosely 'associated' with--perhaps just by proximity--well-known people. I don't know, maybe that's true for everyone. Of course I wish I could have made it big myself, but it's fun to take a look at how a truly ordinary person can brush past the truly notable people in a lifetime. It's true, most scenarios I cite are what you would call a real reach, and how many times have I heard that from my three children regarding my 'Jimi Hendrix Story'? As I mentioned before, they would groan whenever I mentioned it, that was until they found out that the pastor, my pastor, who officiated at Jimi Hendrix' funeral also dedicated them when they were babies. That changed everything. Then it became THEIR story.
But there were others, and allow me to take this little trip down Memory Lane:
**Royal Brougham Way near the stadiums in Seattle was named for a nationally-known Seattle sports reporter who went to our church. Royal Brougham, who was with the Seattle Post-Intelligencer for 68 years, was one of the longest tenured newspaper employees in the U.S. in history. He was friends with athletes such as Jack Dempsey and Babe Ruth and movie stars such as Bing Crosby. When I was two years old and crying about going to Sunday school, he gave me two pennies to put in the Sunday school offering, and I am told that made me quit crying. My family knew him until his death in 1978.
**I met Nanette Fabray at the Seattle airport when we were both waiting to take flights. I recognized her as Mary's mother on the "Mary Tyler Moore Show," my favorite.
**Kenny G went to the same junior high school (Sharples) and high school (Franklin) as my four siblings did. A Franklin classmate of his is in his band today. Not only did my daughter meet Kenny G in college, but he actually played one of her compositions (she graduated with a degree in composition) and he taught a seminar she attended.
**Wynton Marsalis also came to my daughter's university. When she met him she said she knew he was from Seattle and that she was from Port Orchard. He said, "Port Orchard? I spent a night in jail in Port Orchard!"
**Branford Marsalis taught my son while he was working on his master's degree at North Carolina Central University, and they appeared together in concert. We have a picture of the two of them out front playing together. Now they are professors together at NCCU and their names appeared together in Downbeat Magazine this month and their pictures will be in Jazz Times in a few months.
**David Foster also came to my daughter's university, and she had the incredible experience of being asked to transcribe a song for him before his Saturday night concert there. She was alone with him for several hours, he would play, she would transcribe. Then he invited her to stick around for his concert, getting her in for free as part of his crew. Good thing she said yes, because before the concert they realized his synthesizer would not work. None of his guys could get it working. My daughter asked if she could give it a try. They looked at her skeptically, her being a girl, with long blond hair no less. But she fooled them all---she fixed it! David Foster, by the way, gave her his card and told her to give him a call if she had a composition she wanted him to listen to. She should have done it, but she never did.
**I met author Corrie ten Boom and Christian singers Evie Tornquist and Don Moen, talked to them all personally. I took a class at Seattle Pacific taught by Ralph Carmichael, the grandfather of contemporary Christian music and met him too. Ten years ago I wrote a letter to him and he sent back the nicest letter and also a bunch of his CD's. I met numerous other Christian singers and musicians over the many years of attending Church Music Northwest.
**When my daughter was working in the music technology field in California, she was sent out to a home to repair a top-of-the-line synthesizer owned by Andrew Sievright. Most people wouldn't know who he was, but my daughter did because of me and she called me right away after not only repairing his whole system but also playing his grand piano. Andrew Sievright was the second husband of Melody Green, the widow of Christian songwriter and singer Keith Green. She told him, "My mom raised us on Keith Green's music!"
**My son who is a jazz saxophonist/clarinetist/flutist, has backed up so many famous singers and groups, it's hard to keep track. The list includes Chaka Khan, the Temptations, Frankie Avalon, Brian Horton, Joey Calderazzo and Branford Marsallis. At our church in Hawaii he also backed up singers such as Matthew Ward, Wayne Watson, Bryan Duncan and the group Point of Grace. When he played with Matthew Ward he brought him out to meet me after telling him, "Man, my mom raised me on your music!" When he played with Frankie Avalon for a New Year's Eve gig, he hung out with him during breaks and told him, "My mom rented "Back to the Beach" so many times, my brother and sister and I had all the lines memorized before she eventually bought the movie." Then he and Frankie sat their trading off lines from the movie. ("Train up your children in the way that they should go.")
**Most of the stars of the TV show "Lost," which was filmed on Oahu while we were living there, lived in Lanikai, which was part of Kailua where we lived. I was behind Jorge Garcia (Hurley) at Safeway, and my husband and I, sadly, watched Evangeline Lily's (Kate) house burn down one morning. She lived about five minutes from us, but we were at Starbucks doing our Bible study that morning, and it was even closer to her house.
**Oprah Winfrey bought a house/compound right on Kailua Beach, which was five minutes from our home. The Obamas spend every Christmas at Lanikai in Kailua.
**Greg Evans, cartoonist for the Luann comic strip, had his Luann always in love with a character who had my son's name, going back to when my son was in elementary school. When we lived in Hawaii and my son was in the university there, I wrote to Greg Evans, and he wrote right back. It turned out he and his wife came to Kailua every year for a vacation with friends in Lanikai. When he spoke at the Kailua Library during one of those vacations my husband and I went to meet him and his wife, who were very well aware of us and our story, that we moved to Kailua because of my husband's job. Sometime after that we were shocked to see Luann's love interest move to Kailua--our Kailua!--because of his father's job transfer! This was even written up in the Honolulu newspaper. I joked with Greg Evans that we deserved something like royalties since we handed him our son's life scenario for his story line. We have kept in touch from time to time.
**I met radio personality Sean Hannity at our church in Hawaii. He walked right up to me, shook my hand, and we talked. I threatened never to wash my right hand again.
But now, back to Zoe McLellan. Two BVGO's will always remember knowing her. Her life probably sounds big and exciting to them, and I thought that when I was reading about her. But all too often fame comes with big price in your personal life. That is true in Zoe's life. She had her first role in a movie in 1994. She appeared in "Mr. Holland's Opus" in 1995, as Girl 4. From then on, year after year, she appeared in not only movies but also TV shows. In 2008 she made what I think was a poor decision: She posed nude in Allure Magazine. In 2012 she married fellow actor J.P. Gillian, had a child with him 18 months ago, and now they have been going through a bitter child custody situation that is playing out in public. There are numerous big articles with headlines blaring phrases about her 'loser husband' and that he was only going after custody so he could get money from her TV success.
Personally, I think our quiet lives as BVGs--and for our children, as BVGOs--is far more appealing. We'll never show up in the tabloids. Nobody really cares what we say or do. It's okay that our blog doesn't go viral (or, as I say, bacterial). Obviously, we treasure our anonymity, hence the cucumber slices over our eyes (or some other reasonable facsimile). Hence Firstelle, Elletu, Cool and j. Nobody snaps our picture as we walk out of Fred Meyer.
But then a photographer did catch j outside of Hobby Lobby, and Home Goods, and Goodwill, and even while eating out on the deck at the Tides Tavern.............
Tuesday, September 23, 2014
It Pays to Think Ahead (It Pays to Cover a Head)
This picture is 27 years old. I was 39 years old at the time. The occasion was the Jack Benny party my husband and I hosted to commemorate the year seven of us turned 39. (For our young readers, Jack Benny was a comedian who, even when in his 80's, said he was 39.) Someone wanted to take my picture out in my backyard, and I said, "Wait! Let me get a bag over my head, since I can't find any cucumber slices. You never know, years down the road I might have a blog with friends who don't want us to show our faces." How clairvoyant of me!
Then our friend John, who was also 39 at the time (and who wore a T-shirt that read "The older the violin, the sweeter the music!"), said, "Do you suppose you are going to want a picture of me on your blog?" and grabbed a blindfold.
Too bad j's husband didn't get the memo.
Another Day, Another Field Trip
It has been a few decades since we last went on field trips with our school-aged and preschool-aged children. Those were fun years for sure, and j and I have found a way to extend that joy far beyond those days. These days we find new places to go and new experiences to broaden our horizons, and when we go we call them field trips. Yesterday we broadened our horizons to include the brand new Hobby Lobby store in Tacoma. Because it was their grand opening, we got to spin a wheel for prizes. We now have new tote bags. This was perhaps not as exciting or lucrative as the grand opening of Stock Market (grocery store, not an extension of Wall Street) in Port Orchard when our kids were little. My kids and I were at that one along with Firstelle and her three children, and although we did have to stand in line for a long time, we did get free donuts and a free pound of bacon. Bacon! Not that I'm complaining about the green Hobby Lobby tote bag. I'm proud of j for spending twice as much as I did and taking care of so many Christmas shopping items. Lunch at Gateway to India followed. This was a good way to spend the last day of what has been this area's second warmest summer. We enjoyed the last gasps of it right up to the end. It is raining today. Happy fall.
It remains to be seen how our husbands' looming retirements (her husband retires November 1, mine retires December 3) will impact any future field trips. Stay tuned.
Monday, September 22, 2014
Legends of the Fall (Colors) - Part 1
Goodbye summer, hello autumn.........literally. Yesterday was the last day of summer, and the temperature hit a high of 79 degrees. Skies were clear, sunshine reigned. Clouds roll in today, the first day of fall, and tomorrow rain will reign. The rest of the week the highs will be in the 60's. Are we ready for this? If we love fall colors--and we do--then today we celebrate the change of the season.
In the earliest years of our marriage my husband established a tradition, our 'Fall Colors Tour,' which means a drive in the mountains to fully appreciate the yellow, red and orange leaves at the most opportune time, usually in late October. In our first October living in Hawaii we went on the Hawaiian version of our Fall Colors Tour. We drove around our town of Kailua and took pictures of all the tropical flowers still in brilliant bloom to send to our friends back in Washington. (It is in that same vein that I rewrote "I'm Dreaming of a White Christmas" to become "I'm Dreaming of a White Sand Christmas.")
One of the few joys of moving to Virginia after our nine years in Hawaii was the return of a true Fall Colors Tour. For the first one we just stayed around Williamsburg and Yorktown, but the following year we were enthralled with the colors along the Blue Ridge Parkway and then down along the Shenandoah Valley. This has to rival the storied Vermont autumns.
The leaves are starting to turn colors here in Port Orchard, and pumpkins have turned up outside of the grocery stores. After fall, then Thanksgiving, then the bell ringers start showing up outside of the grocery stores, then we start to think snow, then Christmas, then the New Year, then Valentine's Day, then we can't wait for the first day of spring, then the flower baskets start showing up outside of the grocery stores, then we can't wait for the summer sunshine, and then......
Here are more pictures of autumn in Virginia:
Friday, September 19, 2014
The Bubbly: Champagne Trivia (for my next Brain Quiz?)
During our recent Champagne Tasting, Cool educated us about The Bubbly and shared with us some of the more notable quotes about this sparkling delight. Case in point:
"Champagne for my real friends and real pain for my sham friends."
--Tom Waits quotes (American Singer and Song Writer, b. 1949)
"A woman should never be seen eating or drinking, unless it be lobster salad and Champagne, the only true feminine and becoming viands."
--Lord Byron quotes (English Romantic poet and satirist, 1788-1824)
"After all, what is your host's purpose in having a party? Surely not for you to enjoy yourself, if that were their sole purpose, they'd have simply sent champagne and women over to your place by taxi."
--P.J. O'Rourke quotes (American political commentator, Journalist, Writer and Humorist, b. 1947)
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Now, some of the Champagne facts, perhaps for an upcoming Brain Quiz:
Champagne is a sparkling, white colored wine that is produced by secondary fermentation.
Champagne is produced in a region in France by the same name and is called the wine region of France.
Champagne tastes best when it is ice-cold and complements various meals.
Champagne is made from grapes, where the juice is extracted and undergoes double fermentation, once in the barrels and the second time in the bottles it is stored in, to yield a 'glittering' wine.
Champagne's varieties are differentiated by the method in which they are produced.
Champagne is thought to have first been invented in France is the 17th century by Dom Perignon, a Benedictine monk at the Abbey of Hautvillers.
Champagne is made from three different types of grapes (two black, one white), whereas wine is made out of only one type of grape.
Champagne, the name, is copyrighted, and the wine can be named champagne only if it is produced in Champagne (the northeastern region of France).
Champagne produced elsewhere but by the same methodology has to be labeled as 'method champenoise' so as to give credit to the procedure.
Champagne glasses come in two styles, flute and coupe, and the legend is that the broad-rimmed shallow goblet known as a coupe was made using molds in order to resemble Marie Antoinette's bosom.
Champagne bottles stored at 20 degrees C and measuring 750 ml contain approximately 49 million bubbles, a figure calculated by renowned scientist Bill Lembeck.
Champagne bottle pressure is three times higher than that in an automobile tire, measuring at 90 pounds per square inch.
Champagne is said to have been used for a bath for popular American actress Marilyn Monroe, and it took approximately 350 bottles of champagne to fill the tub.
Champagne glass height record (unveiled at a festival in Spotelo, a city in Italy): Seven feet, and it can hold up to 22 bottles of The Bubbly.
Champagne that was served on the Titanic: Heidsieck & Co. Monopole Blue Top Champagne.
Champagne cork velocity when leaving the bottle has been recorded at approximately 38-40 mph, and it pops out at as fast as 100 mph.
Champagne cork fly record: 177 feet, 9 inches, achieved by American Heinrich Medicus in New York in 1988.
Champagne goes very well with seafood, especially smoked salmon*, lobsters, crabs and oysters.
*Hence, the Bethel Valley Girls served Smoked Salmon Caesar at their Champagne Tasting.
"Champagne for my real friends and real pain for my sham friends."
--Tom Waits quotes (American Singer and Song Writer, b. 1949)
"A woman should never be seen eating or drinking, unless it be lobster salad and Champagne, the only true feminine and becoming viands."
--Lord Byron quotes (English Romantic poet and satirist, 1788-1824)
"After all, what is your host's purpose in having a party? Surely not for you to enjoy yourself, if that were their sole purpose, they'd have simply sent champagne and women over to your place by taxi."
--P.J. O'Rourke quotes (American political commentator, Journalist, Writer and Humorist, b. 1947)
*************
Now, some of the Champagne facts, perhaps for an upcoming Brain Quiz:
Champagne is a sparkling, white colored wine that is produced by secondary fermentation.
Champagne is produced in a region in France by the same name and is called the wine region of France.
Champagne tastes best when it is ice-cold and complements various meals.
Champagne is made from grapes, where the juice is extracted and undergoes double fermentation, once in the barrels and the second time in the bottles it is stored in, to yield a 'glittering' wine.
Champagne's varieties are differentiated by the method in which they are produced.
Champagne is thought to have first been invented in France is the 17th century by Dom Perignon, a Benedictine monk at the Abbey of Hautvillers.
Champagne is made from three different types of grapes (two black, one white), whereas wine is made out of only one type of grape.
Champagne, the name, is copyrighted, and the wine can be named champagne only if it is produced in Champagne (the northeastern region of France).
Champagne produced elsewhere but by the same methodology has to be labeled as 'method champenoise' so as to give credit to the procedure.
Champagne glasses come in two styles, flute and coupe, and the legend is that the broad-rimmed shallow goblet known as a coupe was made using molds in order to resemble Marie Antoinette's bosom.
Champagne bottles stored at 20 degrees C and measuring 750 ml contain approximately 49 million bubbles, a figure calculated by renowned scientist Bill Lembeck.
Champagne bottle pressure is three times higher than that in an automobile tire, measuring at 90 pounds per square inch.
Champagne is said to have been used for a bath for popular American actress Marilyn Monroe, and it took approximately 350 bottles of champagne to fill the tub.
Champagne glass height record (unveiled at a festival in Spotelo, a city in Italy): Seven feet, and it can hold up to 22 bottles of The Bubbly.
Champagne that was served on the Titanic: Heidsieck & Co. Monopole Blue Top Champagne.
Champagne cork velocity when leaving the bottle has been recorded at approximately 38-40 mph, and it pops out at as fast as 100 mph.
Champagne cork fly record: 177 feet, 9 inches, achieved by American Heinrich Medicus in New York in 1988.
Champagne goes very well with seafood, especially smoked salmon*, lobsters, crabs and oysters.
*Hence, the Bethel Valley Girls served Smoked Salmon Caesar at their Champagne Tasting.
Elletu Wins!
Elletu has as many grandchildren as the BVG's have (grown) children.
As noted before, between us the Bethel Valley Girls have ten children:
Firstelle - Two sons and one daughter
Elletu - Two daughters and one son
Cool - Two sons
j - Two daughters
When we would get together at the Piggy Park during the summer we would have ten children to keep track of, and no, the picture above is not of our ten children. Instead, those are Elletu's ten grandchildren. But she's not stopping there, because in about three months that number will increase to 11 grandchildren, and apparently that's it, no more grandchildren for Elletu. I'm pretty impressed that she has outdone in grandchildren what the BVG's did in children.
In five months my fourth grandchild will be born, and at that point my oldest and youngest will be done having babies. The burning question is, will there be more BVGOO's to come?
No pressure here, but Cool, j and I noted the other night that we each have children who have not had children yet could bring us future grandchildren. If it happens, it happens. We would be thrilled. But one thing is for sure: We will never surpass Elletu in the grandchildren department.
Elletu wins!
As noted before, between us the Bethel Valley Girls have ten children:
Firstelle - Two sons and one daughter
Elletu - Two daughters and one son
Cool - Two sons
j - Two daughters
When we would get together at the Piggy Park during the summer we would have ten children to keep track of, and no, the picture above is not of our ten children. Instead, those are Elletu's ten grandchildren. But she's not stopping there, because in about three months that number will increase to 11 grandchildren, and apparently that's it, no more grandchildren for Elletu. I'm pretty impressed that she has outdone in grandchildren what the BVG's did in children.
In five months my fourth grandchild will be born, and at that point my oldest and youngest will be done having babies. The burning question is, will there be more BVGOO's to come?
No pressure here, but Cool, j and I noted the other night that we each have children who have not had children yet could bring us future grandchildren. If it happens, it happens. We would be thrilled. But one thing is for sure: We will never surpass Elletu in the grandchildren department.
Elletu wins!
Thursday, September 18, 2014
Cucumbers Are Doing the Trick!
So last night's BVG night fell on my niece Dayna's 51st birthday, and we thought we'd pose for a picture to send to her. Knowing we would want the photo to show up on our blog, we grabbed some cucumber slices from the veggie tray j had prepared. When we looked at the picture we could hardly believe our eyes. When did we start using cucumber slices on our eyes? Wasn't it back at our first BVG Spa Day? Yes, I think so. We've been consistent, and it has obviously paid off, because wow, look how much younger we look now! Hopefully Dayna will learn from us and be inspired to start using cucumber slices on her eyes, although I have to admit, she looks great for someone her age. Sure, she looks young now, but 15 years from now? No way, unless she follows our example.**
**Results may vary!
**Results may vary!
The Morning After the Night Before
Our alarm went off two and a half hours ago, at 4:45 A.M., and I'm having a hard time getting fully awakened. Considering last night was our BVG Champagne Tasting night, you might think I'm the victim of what comedian Shelley Berman referred to as "the morning after the night before" in his 1957 New Year's Eve routine. The Oxford Dictionary defines this term as "the morning after a night of drinking, when one has a hangover."
I'm not hungover from the champagne. I always have a hard time waking up after taking Nyquil for a cold, so I seldom use that product. This time around, I needed it. But this post is not about my cold. This morning I'm basking in the memories of yet another wonderful BVG night. Last night was our monthly get-together, and our theme for this month was tasting champagne. Cool and Elletu are more champagne savvy than j and I. In fact, j and I knew nothing about it, but today we are wiser.
Cool brought her FLUTE glasses. I supplied COUPE glasses, which belonged to my grandparents. We had two bottles to taste and paired the champagne with things such as almonds, dark chocolate, fresh veggies, smoked Gouda and apple slices. Then we feasted on a dinner of Smoked Salmon Caesar Salad accompanied by garlic bread.
What fun we have! How blessed we are to be DOING LIFE TOGETHER!
I'm not hungover from the champagne. I always have a hard time waking up after taking Nyquil for a cold, so I seldom use that product. This time around, I needed it. But this post is not about my cold. This morning I'm basking in the memories of yet another wonderful BVG night. Last night was our monthly get-together, and our theme for this month was tasting champagne. Cool and Elletu are more champagne savvy than j and I. In fact, j and I knew nothing about it, but today we are wiser.
Cool brought her FLUTE glasses. I supplied COUPE glasses, which belonged to my grandparents. We had two bottles to taste and paired the champagne with things such as almonds, dark chocolate, fresh veggies, smoked Gouda and apple slices. Then we feasted on a dinner of Smoked Salmon Caesar Salad accompanied by garlic bread.
What fun we have! How blessed we are to be DOING LIFE TOGETHER!
Wednesday, September 17, 2014
Yes, Virginia, There Really Was a Piggy at the Piggy Park
I found it---proof that there was a piggy at the Piggy Park for our kids to ride, not that my children made a habit of that at the age they were in this picture. I snapped this photo at a little Piggy Park Reunion we had many years ago. This is how Clayton Playground became known as the Piggy Park, at least to the BVG's and the BVGO's. This little piece of history from our children's lives is now preserved for the future, thanks to my scanner and this blog.
The piggy may be gone, but it's not forgotten.
FIGs: Doing Life Together
This past Saturday was the annual Fox Island Garage Sale. Our friends John and Laurie live on the island, and each September they invite a group of us to meet at their house at 8:45 for coffee, then by 9 A.M. we scatter in our own cars and scour the island for the best bargains. Besides garage sales set up at private homes all over the island, many residents bring their wares to the property around the fire station and the Fox Island Historical Museum and even more to the Fox Island Community Center. Shortly after noon we meet back at John and Laurie's, enjoy a potluck lunch, and then it's time for The Big Reveal. We open the backs of our cars and display our treasures. Whoever spends the most or gets the most incredible bargains is declared the Shopper of the Year. I was thrilled to win last year, when I among other things I picked up the perfect crib to have for our grandchildren.
I only held the title for one year. Even I didn't vote for myself this year. The two young granddaughters of some friends won this year. Not only did they perfect their skills at bargaining, I was amazed by the number of free items they received from generous sellers. When I was voting for them I noted, "I've gone to the Fox Island Garage Sale for years, and no one has ever given me anything for free!" Their grandfather--and good friend of ours--piped up, "That's because you aren't cute like they are!" Enough said on that subject.
Fox Island is a beautiful place. We have met some beautiful people there through the annual garage sale. Case in point: the woman whose crib I bought last year at her beautiful home. I also bought some clothes there for my grandsons, so that was one place I wanted to return. It was fun to see that young mother again, and this year I got to meet her two close friends who were doing the sale together. A delightful friend of hers was manning the cash box, and the third young woman was walking around with her baby in a front pack. The three of them were laughing together, talking back and forth, and it was quite obvious to me that they had a special closeness between them, something akin to the BVGs..
As I went to pay for my new treasures, I asked the woman at the cash box, "Are you the one who sold me your crib last year?" She said no and pointed to her friend and said, "She's the homeowner, you bought her crib." At this point the homeowner joined the conversation, and she was obviously thrilled to hear my story of how I bought the crib last September without knowing that in October my son would come from Hawaii for job interviews and that in November he moved his wife and 16-month-old son to Seattle from Hawaii. It turned out to be a very good thing that I had that crib for the week that they stayed with us before moving into their home in Seattle, and it is used so much for overnights at Grandma's now, for both of my grandsons and other grandchildren to come.
But this is not where our conversation ended, and it's not even the reason for this blog post. These three women--I'm going to call them the Fox Island Girls (FIGs)--it turns out have been friends for 12 years. They became friends when their husbands started working together, and they just hit it off. Now they are all raising their children together.
Of course I had to tell them about the Bethel Valley Girls. I also told them about the Route 66 Party I just had for my husband, and the Jack Benny Party 27 years ago. I told them, "We raised our children together, and now we are grandparents together." I told them how nice it is to be at this stage of life and look back and realize how much fun we've all had DOING LIFE TOGETHER.
I like that, DOING LIFE TOGETHER. We have marked the passage of time with flair, if I do say so myself. And I wouldn't want it any other way. The FIGs are "twelve years into it," as they put it. They told me they will look for me next September and will want to hear more of the escapades we have with our friends as we continue DOING LIFE TOGETHER.
Next year I'll tell them it's time to start their own FIG blog.Scenes from Fox Island
I only held the title for one year. Even I didn't vote for myself this year. The two young granddaughters of some friends won this year. Not only did they perfect their skills at bargaining, I was amazed by the number of free items they received from generous sellers. When I was voting for them I noted, "I've gone to the Fox Island Garage Sale for years, and no one has ever given me anything for free!" Their grandfather--and good friend of ours--piped up, "That's because you aren't cute like they are!" Enough said on that subject.
Fox Island is a beautiful place. We have met some beautiful people there through the annual garage sale. Case in point: the woman whose crib I bought last year at her beautiful home. I also bought some clothes there for my grandsons, so that was one place I wanted to return. It was fun to see that young mother again, and this year I got to meet her two close friends who were doing the sale together. A delightful friend of hers was manning the cash box, and the third young woman was walking around with her baby in a front pack. The three of them were laughing together, talking back and forth, and it was quite obvious to me that they had a special closeness between them, something akin to the BVGs..
As I went to pay for my new treasures, I asked the woman at the cash box, "Are you the one who sold me your crib last year?" She said no and pointed to her friend and said, "She's the homeowner, you bought her crib." At this point the homeowner joined the conversation, and she was obviously thrilled to hear my story of how I bought the crib last September without knowing that in October my son would come from Hawaii for job interviews and that in November he moved his wife and 16-month-old son to Seattle from Hawaii. It turned out to be a very good thing that I had that crib for the week that they stayed with us before moving into their home in Seattle, and it is used so much for overnights at Grandma's now, for both of my grandsons and other grandchildren to come.
But this is not where our conversation ended, and it's not even the reason for this blog post. These three women--I'm going to call them the Fox Island Girls (FIGs)--it turns out have been friends for 12 years. They became friends when their husbands started working together, and they just hit it off. Now they are all raising their children together.
Of course I had to tell them about the Bethel Valley Girls. I also told them about the Route 66 Party I just had for my husband, and the Jack Benny Party 27 years ago. I told them, "We raised our children together, and now we are grandparents together." I told them how nice it is to be at this stage of life and look back and realize how much fun we've all had DOING LIFE TOGETHER.
I like that, DOING LIFE TOGETHER. We have marked the passage of time with flair, if I do say so myself. And I wouldn't want it any other way. The FIGs are "twelve years into it," as they put it. They told me they will look for me next September and will want to hear more of the escapades we have with our friends as we continue DOING LIFE TOGETHER.
Next year I'll tell them it's time to start their own FIG blog.Scenes from Fox Island
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